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February 18,1988. May 18 will be another birthday for
Alice Day of American Fork. She will be 87. In our house she is not called
Alice Day by us or our children. She is simply called “Grandma” because she is
Susan’s mother.
Grandma Day is getting along quite
well. Her arthritis is “acting up” as she says. When it does, Grandma Day can
predict a storm well ahead of the forecasters. She claims an incoming storm
makes her arthritis worse. She doesn’t move quite as quickly as she used to. It
takes a little more time for her to get up out of her favorite chair in her
front room. But she still gets up.
Most of the time she stays alone in
her American Fork home. On occasion she will come over and visit for a few
days. But then she gets restless and wants to go home. She wants to see what
came in the mail or make sure she is there when her sister, Aunt Metz, or her
brother, Uncle Ernie, come by to visit.
Grandma Day is an excellent
seamstress and loves to crochet. Last week when our children were out of
school. Grandma Day came over and helped them tie a quilt.
We make regular trips to the drug
store in American Fork to get the pills she needs to ease the pain she often
experiences. Whenever anyone asks how she is doing, Grandma Day smiles and
simply says, “I’m doing OK . . . considering the alternatives.” Those who stop
to visit her will find her unusually pleasant.
When Grandma Day needs something at
the store we try to get it for her. She quit driving a few years ago when her legs
started giving her some trouble. In 1970 she bought a green, four-door
Chevrolet Nova. She drove it for nearly 15 years and put 50,000 miles on it. In
1985 it was in good shape, particularly for a 15-year-old car. When her oldest
grandson, and our oldest son, Doug turned 16 and got his driver’s license, she
let him drive the car . . . a lot.
The following year, Doug drove
Grandma’s 1970 Chevy to Orem High School almost every day. He even got a
parking sticker for it from the school. Then after school he would drive to
American Fork to see Grandma. He loved Grandma Day and liked driving her Chevy
around town.
After Doug went on his mission,
Grandma Day said we might as well keep the Chevy at our house, since she didn’t
feel she could drive it anymore. Now, two years later, it has a few more miles
on it. It’s starting to rust in a place or two. And the green paint is starting
to fade. But the amazing thing is that Grandma’s Chevy keeps going and going.
It needs a little maintenance now
and then, as all cars do regardless of age. We just put a new set of tires on
the car. No one really knows how long it will last. Whenever Grandma comes over
to our house she asks how “Old Betsy” is doing. That’s what she calls her car.
We say “fine,” and Grandma smiles.
Deep down I think the car means
something to her. More than transportation, it reminds Grandma Day of the past
and all the places they went together.
Both Grandma and her Chevy are
getting older. That is no secret. But she and her car seem to keep going and
going. Both require a little care now and then. Not a whole lot, but some. And
we try to provide it for both. The Chevy is about due for a tune-up. Maybe
we’ll try to do it next week—about the time that Grandma goes to the doctor in
American Fork for her periodic checkup.
And who knows, with a little care
and attention, both Grandma Day and her Chevy may be around for a long, long
time.
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