Published
April 26, 1990. I often wonder if we pay enough
attention to love. When we marry, we often make serious vows and commitments of
love. We usually agree to love, honor, and cherish each other . . . until death
do us part. And hopefully forever.
Franklin P. Jones noted that, “Love
doesn’t make the world go ‘round. Love is what makes the ride worthwhile.” And
Anais Nin observed that, “The only abnormality is the incapacity to love. “Similarly,
Robert Browning stated, “Take away love and our earth is a tomb.”
Of all things written about love, I
find the thoughts in the Bible to be the most intriguing. In First Cornithians,
Chapter 13, it states:
Though I speak with the tongues of men and of angels, and
have not charity (love), I am become as sounding brass, or a tinkling cymbal.
And though I have the gift of prophecy, and understand all
mysteries, and all knowledge; and though I have all faith, so that I could
remove mountains, and have not charity, I am nothing.
And though I bestow all my goods to feed the poor, and
though I give my body to be burned, and have not charity, it profitheth me
nothing” (Verses 1-3).
What does it mean that “without love
I am nothing”? Will I be nothing without love? Can I do nothing without love?
Another interesting insight offered
in the Bible is that our ability to love would diminish “in the last days.” The
24th chapter of Matthew notes that during that time,
Then shall many be offended, and shall betray one another, and shall hate one another . . .
And because iniquity shall abound, the love of many shall wax cold” (Verses 10 and 12).
Paul also wrote that “love never
faileth” (1 Corinthians 13:8). What exactly does that mean? Does it mean that
relationships will endure if we learn to love others? Is love likely the very
foundation of a marital relationship? Is it possible that love is the very
essence of family life?
According to the Bible, people who
are loving have patience and are kind with each other. They do not envy and put
themselves before others. Nor are they arrogant and think they are better than
other people. Loving people are not rude or selfish. Neither are they easily
angered, nor do they remember nor dwell on the errors or even the sins of other
people. People who love each other bear and endure hardships together. They
also look to the future because they believe and hope all things (1 Corinthians
13:4-7).
Emmet Fox also noted the importance
and power of love when he wrote:
There is no difficulty that enough
love will not conquer;
No door that enough love will not
open;
No gulf that enough love will not
bridge;
No wall that enough love will not
throw down;
It makes no difference how deeply
seated may be the trouble;
How hopeless the outlook; how
muddled the tangle; how great the mistake;
A sufficient realization of love
will dissolve it all.
If only you could love enough, you
would be the happiest and most powerful being in the world.
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