For December Newlyweds, Here Is a Special Prayer . . .


Published December 27, 1984. We received a wedding invitation in the mail not long ago from Kelly Child and Henry Eyring, both former students of mine. They took a class comprised mostly of engaged young adults, and then they married this month.

December is a popular month for marriage. In behalf of all such newlyweds, I would like to share this “Prayer for Bride and Groom,” written by Louis H. Evans:

Oh God of love, Thou has established marriage for the welfare and happiness of mankind. Thou has said, “It is not good for a man to be alone. I will make a help mate for him.” Now our joys are doubled since the happiness of one is the happiness of the other. Our burdens now are halved since when we share them, we divide the load.

Bless this husband and wife. Bless them as providers of nourishment and raiment and sustain them in all the exactions and pressures of their battle for bread. May their strength be each other’s protection, may the character of each be each other’s boast and pride, and may they live so that they will each find in the other that for which their hearts truly long.

Give them a tenderness that will make them great, a deep sense of understanding and a great faith in Thee. Give them that inner beauty . . . that never fades, the eternal youth that is found in holding fast the things that never age.

Teach them that marriage is not living merely for each other. It is two uniting and joining hands to serve Thee. Give them a great spiritual purpose in life.

May they not expect that perfection of each other that belongs alone to Thee. May they minimize each other’s weaknesses, be swift to praise and magnify each other’s points of comeliness and strength, and see each other through a lover’s kind and patient eyes.

Now make such assignments to them on the scroll of Thy will as will bless them and develop their characters as they walk together. Give them enough tears to keep them tender, enough hurts to keep them humane, enough of failure to keep their hand clenched tightly in Thine, and enough of success to make them sure they walk with God.

May they never take each other’s love for granted, but always experience that breathless wonder that exclaims, “Out of all this world you have chosen me.”

When life is done and the sun is setting, may they be found then as now still hand in hand, still thanking Thee for each other. May they serve Thee happily, faithfully, together, until at last one shall lay the other into the arms of God.

Kelly and Henry, and all others who have recently married, we wish you well.

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